Run Your Life as a Business Featured Everything Has a Life Cycle: a Lesson from Engineering 5 months ago • 7 min read
Queerdom What is Comphet aka Compulsory Heterosexuality Comp het is a precursor to heteronormativity. It's about society's prescribed orientation, with heterosexuality assumed to be the norm and forced on people. 6 days ago • 5 min read
Drabble Surrender to your Kiss - Drabble Flutter a hundred kisses across my bare skin, and I will surrender under you – surrender unto you. 10 days ago • 1 min read
Work The Brilliant Jerk Problem at Work What if your worker is too valuable to discipline for toxicity? What if you have to cope with their bad behaviour for the sake of productivity? 13 days ago • 5 min read
Polyamory What is New Relationship Energy in Polyamory? The flood of emotions at the beginning of a new polyam relationship makes up NRE, or new relationship energy. This compares with old relationship energy. 20 days ago • 6 min read
Kink Green Flags in a Relationship Featuring Polyamory and Kink The counterpoint to red flags are relationship green flags. They are signs for accelerating a relationship. What are some polyamorous green flags? a month ago • 7 min read
Drabble Drowning - Drabble The waves swelled above like roiling hills, with energetic surges that battered a swimmer like me. Still, I didn't want to go back inland. a month ago • 1 min read
Life You Can't Hold Things Steady In Time Life is not static. It's constantly changing. My engineering mind sees the world in terms of rates of change: if you don't grow something, you lose it. a month ago • 5 min read
Kink Musing on Gentle Femdom With my Submissive Husband Gentle female domination is part of my dynamic with my submissive husband. Yet it does not wholly define me as a Domme. Today on my blog I'm musing on GFD. a month ago • 6 min read
Life Boundaries with Young Humans and Why I'm Glad We're MINKs This weekend I enforced my boundaries with the kid when visiting my family. I've grown complacent with my multiple-income no-kids lifestyle. a month ago • 3 min read
Executive Household What is the Executive Household? As a kinkster leading a D/s relationship, I have the luxury to choose what the dominance and submission looks like. I call my style the Executive Household. a month ago • 6 min read
