Kink I Keep My Submissives Collared In Public Nothing reminds me of my submissives' love like formal collars about their necks. Collars can be like the BDSM equivalent of marriage rings. 21 days ago • 7 min read
Kink Dark BDSM Allegories Never Worked For Me A common refrain in the kink community is that BDSM is a dark part of their lives, shadowy and often conflicted. This has never suited me. a month ago • 5 min read
Power Why I'm the Mistress of Home and Finance First I earned my title of Mistress in the eyes of my submissive dearheart. Then I further distinguished my title by guiding him to buying a home. 7 months ago • 7 min read
Kink Green Flags in a Relationship Featuring Polyamory and Kink The counterpoint to red flags are relationship green flags. They are signs for accelerating a relationship. What are some polyamorous green flags? 9 months ago • 7 min read
Kink Musing on Gentle Femdom With my Submissive Husband Gentle female domination is part of my dynamic with my submissive husband. Yet it does not wholly define me as a Domme. Today on my blog I'm musing on GFD. 9 months ago • 6 min read
Executive Household What is the Executive Household? As a kinkster leading a D/s relationship, I have the luxury to choose what the dominance and submission looks like. I call my style the Executive Household. 9 months ago • 6 min read
Kink Entwined in my Gentle Femdom Relationship I wish to possess my submissive, and to entwine his life around mine. I desire to nurture his growth, and be inspired to better myself in turn. a year ago • 7 min read
Kink Vignettes of my Gentle FemDom Relationship It can be hard to come up with gentle femdom ideas on your own, which is why I'm sharing snippets of my own relationship to spark your imagination. a year ago • 4 min read
Queerdom I'd Rather be a Weirdo Kinkster than a Mundane Person Nowadays at least, kinksters are seen less and less as sexual deviants to be "othered" and more for what they are: performance artists and loving people. a year ago • 7 min read
Poetic Dominance is Full of Awkward Moments A useful part of dominance is smoothing over kinksters' awkward silences, transmuting them into laughter, glee, relief, obedience, and so on. a year ago • 2 min read
